Sunday, March 6, 2011

14 Greatests in Your Life OR 14 Guidance of Human Life

Prologue

Yesterday, when I was chatting with Hock Keong, we discussed about competition and competitor. He also slightly mentioned about he that used to agree that comparing academic and non-academic results was a correct thing to do. This means that the competition has to be a positive one and it would help to discover or boost someone's potential.
Nevertheless, as time goes on and as experience accumulates, he realised that to be excellence in a field, he should ensure that he improves himself every moment instead of comparing with others.
14 Guidance of Human Life (or 14 Greatests in Your Life)

This leads me to think of a phrase that I learnt long time ago--Life's greatest enemy is ourself. It has 14 phrases all together but I am not sure about its origin,perhaps buddhism. Anyway which religion isn't important as long as they are great phrases. I will list down all of them. I suggest you to have them in front of your desk and think of them when you are free. I believe it has such a power that able to change your life and this is the reason I share them here.

1) Life's greatest enemy is ourself

2) Life's greatest failure is arrogant

3) Life's greatest ignorance is dupe

4) Life's greatest sorrow is jealousy

5) Life's greatest erroneous is self-abandon

6) Life's greatest admiration is choice of advancing

7) Life's greatest gratification is alms

8) Life's greatest wealth is healthiness

9) Life's greatest gift is forgiveness

10) Life's greatest pitiable disposotion is self-abased

11) Life's greatest sin is to deceive oneself

12) Life's greatest liabilities is a debt of human sympathy

13) Life's greatest imperfection is melancholy wisdom

14) Life's greatest insolvent is despair

Credits to http://aizhongwen.blogspot.com/2008/11/ren-sheng-shi-si-zui-14-guidance-of.html

Friday, March 4, 2011

有感而发——以钱理群的演讲回应分享

肥龙写:
to those who are working, money is not an incentive??haha!
i always use that as a guide to choose work...
and i guess it only will work for a certain amount of time until you get bored of what you are doing..^^

看了肥龙的这段文字,颇为同意,也联想起钱理群在他的演讲《漫说大学之大》的一段话,故想节录在这里做些分享:

…… 我至今还记得王瑶先生在我刚刚入学作硕士研究生的时候对我说:“钱理群,一进校你先给我算一个数学题:时间是个衡量,对于任何人,一天只有二十四小时,要牢牢地记住这个常识——你一天只有二十四小时。这二十四小时就看你如何支配,这方面花得多了,另一方面就有所损失。要有所得,必须有所失,不能求全。”讲通俗点,天下好事不能一个人占了。现在的年轻人最大的毛病就是想把好事占全,样样都不肯损失。你要取得学习上的成功、研究上的成功,必须有大量的付出,时间、精力、体力、脑力,必须有所牺牲,少玩点甚至是少睡点觉,更没有时间来打扮自己。你打扮自己的时间多了,读书的时间就少了,这是一个非常简单的道理。怎么安排时间,我没有一个价值判断。你打扮自己、你整天玩,那也是一种人生追求,不能说读书一定就比玩好。不过你要想清楚,这边花得多那边就有损失,你打扮的时间、玩的时间多了,那就会影响读书。想多读书就不要过分想去玩、去打扮自己。这背后有一个如何处理物质和精神的关系问题,既要物质的充分满足又要精神的充分满足,那是一种理论的说法,是一种理想状态的说法,或者从整个社会发展的合理角度说的,落实到个人是比较难实现的。我认为落实到个人物质首先是第一的,所以鲁迅先生说:“一要生存,二要温饱,三要发展。”他说得很清楚,生存、温饱是物质方面的,发展是精神方面的。在物质生活没有基本保证之前是谈不上精神的发展的。过去我们有一种说法就是要安贫乐道,这是一种骗人的东西,千万不要上当。要你安贫乐道的人自己在那里挥霍,我们不能安贫,我们基本的物质要求要满足,要理直气壮地维护自己的物质利益。

但是你基本的物质权利得到保证了,比如你已经有助学金了,你已经基本吃饱了,你有教室,有宿舍让你住下来了,基本的生活条件已经有了,那各位同学就应该考虑如何设计、安排自己今后的一生,并为此做好准备。如果你一门心思去追求物质也可以,但你就不要想精神方面要怎么样,不要喊“我痛苦啦!我痛苦啦!”有人在全心赚钱,同时又在想“我空虚”——你不要空虚,你就是要追求享乐那就这样做好了,不必要求全。将物质要求作为人生的主要追求,那你精神方面一定有损失,这是肯定的。我对自己也有设计:第一,我的物资生活水平要在中等,最好要在中上水平。比方我需要有宽敞的书房,这不仅是一间书房的问题,这是一个精神空间的问题。我就希望有比较大一点的房子,这就与我的精神自由性联系在一起。但具备了这样一些基本的生存条件以后,就不能有过高的物质要求,因为我要求我的精神生活是第一流的。我不能同时要求精神是一流的,物质也是一流的,我不能跟大款比,那我心理永远不平衡。所以我觉得同学们应该考虑好,如果你决心偏重于精神追求,在物质上就必须有牺牲,当然前提是基本物质要求要有保证。在基本物质得到保证的基础上,你就不能拼命去追求那些东西了,这一方面你得看淡一点。有所得必有所失,这不是阿Q精神。面对大款我并不羡慕他们,但我也不鄙弃他们,他们有他们的价值,有他的追求。只要你是诚实劳动得到你应该得到的东西,我尊敬你,但是我和你不一样,我追求的是精神。我讲的献身精神不是像过去讲的那样,什么物质也不要只是去献身,我不是这个意思。现在年轻人最大的毛病就是贪得无厌,什么都想得全,恨不得什么都是第一流的,稍有一点不满就牢骚满腹,我见过很多同学都有这种问题,这是不行的。这是你做的选择,有所得就有所失,有所失反过来才又会有所得。












钱理群演讲《漫说大学之大》,
篇三
——“沉潜十年,最诚恳的希望”

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

哪?



终于,车中渐远的我看着家门关上了。这是否标示着,流浪记的第一章已经下笔?

来到这座大城市,才清楚知道以前的我只是小城故事中的一角。轻快铁,在书上读得多了,却还真的是第一次乘搭。大厦林立,大马国威矗立眼前。喧嚣扰攘的街道,似乎在夸示着首都的繁荣,连雷鸣,也特别的轰耳逼人。

只是,予人方便的轻快铁,为什么厢内的乘客总是那么的沉重,连嘴角都懒得提起。窗外的高楼建筑,有新式的,有残旧的,却反衬得一国之都是多么的突兀。遥想北方的家乡,纵然轻快铁与她缘悭一面,但摩托车上那个迎风的少年,倒乐得自在。发展列车似乎不愿摧毁当地的宁静与祥和,开得特别慢。不知什么时候开始,连残旧的建筑物也有人懂得欣赏了。只是,儿时那纯朴的新村仍然逃不过被拆的命运,谁叫你的价值只有村民懂得欣赏。这一切一切,似乎正隐晦地告诉我,这是我的根生之地。

离开根生之地的小树,活得成吗?


远行的日子终于到了,我还是离开了我的床,我的房,我的屋子,我的家乡。挥别了朋友,告别了兄姐,拥别了父母以后,我踏上了那南下的夜巴。巴士内的冷空气,衬得我心更为孤寂。看来,对新生活的期待始终压不过对旧生活的眷恋。

谁叫,人都赖于习惯?

到了。踏入了梦寐已久的学术殿堂,才发觉梦与现实之间永远都隔着一段无法逾越的灰蒙地带。耳际,不同频率的声音不断冲击着耳蜗。眼前,颜料似乎倒泻了,原为鲜丽的画像被涂染得浓艳庸俗。在这段耳晕目眩的日子里,我的梦境破碎了,坠入的,是无垠的原,死寂的灰。世界依然喧嚣,喧嚣到近似无声。我望着影子,卷入思想漩涡。

难道,我终将湮没于这片灰色尘土之中?

我不能够再待在这了。孤傲的倔强在我体内窜流,逼迫我跨出了久违的步伐。尽管方位不明,前路茫茫,但心中的火焰反倒亮了,为我照明灵的足迹。我,誓言要走出自己的路。就算灰色再次入侵生活,我相信心中的那把火会继续帮我寻路,重归绚丽多彩的世界。

我的身体在流浪,我的灵也在流浪。

不过,究竟要流浪到什么时候呢?四年后吗?毕业后的我就将归巢了吗?我不知道。我只知道,自踏出家门的那一刻开始,我的生活就将像孤雁那样,不停地飞,不断地飞。偶尔在湖边落脚,偶尔在雪泥上歇息,却没一处是真正的归宿。或许你会说,家就是我的归宿。但假若我常年不在家,家就仿佛沦为了芸芸落脚地之一,我又该以什么来作为灵的归宿呢?只是,何为归宿?我的灵究竟要到哪里?难道心脏停止的地方就是归宿?我想老天没那么肤浅。但,二十岁的我仍然无法猜透,只好在流浪之中继续寻找,与老天玩玩这生命的猜谜游戏。

灵的归宿,究竟在哪?


有时候,会自问自己究竟在哪。儿时的我,在快被发展洪流所淹没的乡村中做了九年的甘榜小子,住了九年木屋。玩泥沙,跳飞机人头,下浅河,爬椰子堆,是我的童年。母亲在没有玻璃的窗口前高喊:“强啊,吃饭了!”就是我回家的时候。但,没好好地与玩伴、老家诀别,我就已搬入了被认为“规划良好”的排屋了。一瞬间,我的生活只剩学业,偶尔闲着没事就到邻近的游乐场唱独角戏。上了中学,又是另一番风景。乐团生活成为了我中学时代的主轴,所有科目在于我都只是副修科。当时的每一个笑容,每一滴泪水,每一段旋律,都编写出了永不复返的青春之诗。中学毕业后,进了浮罗山背的国民服务训练营,过了一段“当兵”的日子。而少了乐团的中六,我又再次将重心放归学业,但依然过得精彩。

如今,我的生活空间又转变了,距离更远,时间更长。离开了家里那张床,有时候似乎连自己是谁都搞不清楚。只是,如果永远都不接受外地文化的输血,那么思想终将僵化,等待着被淘汰的命运。这,是无可避免的生活的迁徙。为了找回经常迷失的自己,我爱寻思回忆,因为曾经的存在证明了现在的我的存在。

原来,生活就是不断地迷失,寻思,迷失,寻思……

终于,第一学期也快结束了。看来,流浪记正在如火如荼地编写着。究竟,何时才能完书呢?何时,我才能寻着“归宿”的真义呢?



2010年马大中文系大一第一学期末 

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

In respond to: Is it good to work in Singapore?

Recently there been a lot of circulation of this article around facebook and few of mt friends had ask me my view regarding what had be said in the article.

First of all, in my opinion the guy who wrote that article is very grey. Everything to him is good but yet bad is more than the good stuff and I personally don't like things to be one sided. If reviewing somethings, it should stick to neutral as much as possible.

Before any one who decide to come to Singapore, they must have a purpose in mind, might it be study, work, or education purpose. You must know what you looking for and be ready to give and take. In my case, I decide to come to Singapore to pursuit my education 6 years ago which is 2006 and the education part is the point that I want to review in it.

I always knew that I am not the brightest student in class so don't mention about the whole school or even the nation. I had a not so good, not so bad result for my SPM and I knew I wouldn't survive the STPM if i continue studying it. It was out of a blue that one my my friend suggested me  that I should apply for polytechnic and it was then my life at Singapore begins.

For all these years in Singapore, it show me one things which is if you fight for your future, the chances are always there! You might said you blew your youth for not having a good grade in what ever level. The education system here already provide you with the back up plan. People who didn't do well in O level can always go for polytechnic even if polytechnic failed to give you a seat, there is still ITE. (More on those you should click on the links.)

When I came to Singapore, I don't have much money to spare and I spend most of my time in a wall of four. I do agree that living expenses in Singapore is high but only if you are spending Ringgit! A meal in Singapore campus or hawker center hardly cost you more then 5 dollars and drinks included. In Malaysia, a bow of Chicken rice at KL I believe more then 3 ringgit and a coke also cost you at least 1 ringgit 50 cents. Which without conversion they are on PAR! So basically just don't compare price with conversion, if you end up in Australia you are not be able to settle a meal outside with anything less then 10 AUD.

After 3 years, I finally get my certs and luckily I did it decently well and awarded with a Merit. So what does this be able to bring me? With a Merit Cert, it actually allows me to apply for any of the courses open up for application in Singapore Universities! But good things came with a price, if you are doing the same subject you took in your Poly, you are able to get exemption for certain module and shorter period to complete the degree.

I always had this question asked by my friends. "How long do you need to complete your degree after 3 years in polytechnic?" I told them another 3 years ahead! They always gave me the same respond. "What so long? Another 3 years?" I answered:"Yes but is short, you already did 2 years STPM and your degree need additional 4 years, so you just have to do the math is the same total of 6 years to complete an undergrad degree." Another good news is that, if after your diploma you join the work force for at least two years, you can apply for another course exemption in the Industrial Attachment Program which is a 6 months course, did a few subject in advance by overloading, wahla~~ you can actually finish it in 2 years! Of course by that path you need to work harder than most of your friend!

Next, you might be wondering about the price of studying in Singapore, is must be a lot! Yes you are totally correct and wrong at the same time! Singapore have a very good system in keeping their money flow in the correct path. Look at the table below:


You must be thinking that 26000 SGD / Year must be mad and how would you be so easily be given subsidized! But the real fact is everyone can get the subsidised tuition fees from Singapore Gov. with only one condition which is after graduate you will need to work inside Singapore for at least 3 years to finish the bond! So that's a great deal isn't? So how to get? Just apply here. Or you can actually don't even bother about it, because it will come to you automatically and you would need to prepare 2 sureties which can just be you parents or any PR in Singapore!

The next question would be how do I pay the 12000 SGD/year? That's another simple question to answer. You would need to apply for loan from the local bank. In NTU it should be OCBC bank and it will provide up to 100% of the tuition fees. So what's the down side of this great deal? You would need to have a Singaporean or PRs as a surety and the interest rate per annual is 4.75%. But that shouldn't set you back if you know what you really want!

Last you would be wondering how about my daily living expenses and the rest of 20%? Yes is another great one, just approach Student union. I have no idea how it works out, but it should be 80% correct from here which they can loan you some living expenses. I love this phrase the most:" There's a WILL, there's a WAY!"

Base on the above, you can always think about the study opportunity provided in other countries.

That's my insight about studying in Singapore and you can always choose to agree to disagreement!
Comments box below and always welcome!